We investigate the effects of small admixtures of protic solvent molecules, such as water and alcohols, on the ultrafast dynamics of diphenylcarbene in acetonitrile at room temperature. Broadband transient absorption measurements and quantum mechanics/molecular mechanics molecular dynamics simulations allow elucidating the dominant reaction mechanism of an intermediate hydrogen-bonded complex between singlet diphenylcarbene and a protic solvent molecule, thus competing with intersystem crossing. Analysis of the data indicates that complex formation is a diffusion-controlled process with orientational requirements. The reaction path involving a benzhydryl cation is less likely in neat bulkier alcohols, as it requires the interaction of the carbene with a protic solvent molecule being part of a hydrogen-bonded network. The simulations indicate a further reaction path toward O-H insertion and two side reactions depending on the involved protic solvent species. Thus, we established that not only the number but also the chemical nature of the protic solvent molecule determine which reaction path is pursued.